Sometimes I feel like I would reach more people if I took a strong stance. Pro vaccine. Or anti vaccine. If I spoke about the draconian, satanic elite, how we’re being manipulated, chemtrails, and how you shouldn’t trust your university-degree doctor with your baby’s health. “Use your voice, speak loud, and your people will find you”, that kind of thing.
I mean, it seems to work. They have followers who sing their praise, who take their every word to heart, almost religiously. Which bothers me. I see people swallowing truths whole, instead of looking to their own guidance system for their individual truth (which is what we need to do – every single one of us).
Anyway, my lack of stance has made me question why I’m resistant. Is it because I’m afraid to stand out, and risk being disliked? Maybe I’m afraid to be wrong? There’s truth to all of them, but they’re not the main reason.
The heart of the matter is: I don’t know.
The majority of coaches and healers will define concepts; “this is what heart centered communication looks like”… They will tell you to do daily mantras to gain confidence, attract your soulmate, or get access to the quantum field.
From where I stand, you might have a different experience of what heart centered communication looks like. You might want to approach “attracting your soulmate” in a completely different way than by doing mantras.
Let me give you an example… After finding Human Design, I realized some people thrive of pouring their energy into something until they hit the ground exhausted. They are like a powerful engine that needs to run at its full capacity. Others thrive when they work only a few hours a day. They are not less focused, what they do is not less important, but they are not that powerful engine.
See… I don’t know what works for you. There are extremely few concepts in which I can comfortably put my hand on my heart and state “this is it – this is how it’s done”. In fact, I can only think of one:
You need self-awareness if you want to experience the sweetness of being yourself. Those are things I believe in.
The importance of emotions.
Self-awareness.
Building a solid and supportive relationship to yourself.
At the core of it all… YOU. I want you to be you. The big question is if you want you? If it is: I hope (and believe) you align with tools that bring you closer to yourself. I’m transparent and vulnerable in every post I share, that’s my way of making healing accessible. I’m holding up a window to my soul as I work through my own trauma.
Gunhild Archer, counselor 